{"id":2070,"date":"2018-11-25T07:54:16","date_gmt":"2018-11-25T05:54:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/?p=2070"},"modified":"2025-07-26T08:26:07","modified_gmt":"2025-07-26T06:26:07","slug":"to-be-authentic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/?p=2070","title":{"rendered":"To Be Authentic"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8220;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8220;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8220;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8220;initial&#8220; background_position=&#8220;top_left&#8220; background_repeat=&#8220;repeat&#8220;][et_pb_column type=&#8220;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8220;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8220;|||&#8220; custom_padding__hover=&#8220;|||&#8220;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8220;4.8.2&#8243; text_line_height=&#8220;1.5em&#8220; link_text_align=&#8220;justify&#8220; link_text_color=&#8220;#515151&#8243; text_orientation=&#8220;justified&#8220; hover_enabled=&#8220;0&#8243; sticky_enabled=&#8220;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>The decline of old manners.<\/p>\n<p>The appearance of new manners.<\/p>\n<p>Times have changed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Once, acting without conscience was unthinkable.<\/p>\n<p>But what used to be unthinkable is now reality.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Exhibitionism by performers \u2013<\/p>\n<p>Voyeurism by the audience.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Is the sense of shame and the need for intimacy merely relics of former times?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It seems as if shame is a trait we have to get rid of.<\/p>\n<p>It seems as if the ability to feel shame has become a new virtue.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>What is this virtue called? Uptightness? Prudery?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not just prominent figures who headline themselves anymore.<\/p>\n<p>They present the simplest pornography.<\/p>\n<p>There is a focus on making money.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>More and more people today<\/p>\n<p>do not shy away from emotional or physical nudity.<\/p>\n<p>They are not shy of any mortification.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The world is flooded with narcissism.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing is more important than self-realisation and the cultivation of one&#8217;s own needs.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody&#8217;s everyday life is on display.<\/p>\n<p>The need to inform others is inexhaustible.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And then there&#8217;s this addiction:<\/p>\n<p>An addiction to nakedness.<\/p>\n<p>It belongs to our everyday life today.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Emotions and bodies are exhibited uninhibitedly everywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Secrets are disclosed to everyone \u2014<\/p>\n<p>Frivolously and recklessly.<\/p>\n<p>People invade the darkest corners of others&#8216; private lives.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Today, a culture of shamelessness rules.<\/p>\n<p>a culture of disrespect.<\/p>\n<p>A culture of irreverence and<\/p>\n<p>A culture that invalidates ideals.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It seems as if you have to be shameless to be AUTHENTIC.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span>Unverk\u00e4ufliches Gedicht von Doreen Gehrke. Die Verwendung dieses Gedichts, ob nun auszugsweise oder in vollem Umfang, ist ohne schriftlicher Zustimmung von Doreen Gehrke urheberrechtswidrig. Auch eine \u00dcbersetzung des Gedichts sowie die Verwendung in elektronischen Systemen ist strafbar.\u00a0<\/span><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/vg01.met.vgwort.de\/na\/21a1778c156d49868e88485181eb0d0f\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_button button_url=&#8220;https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/?page_id=338&#8243; button_text=&#8220;Zur\u00fcck&#8220; button_alignment=&#8220;left&#8220; _builder_version=&#8220;4.5.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8220;default&#8220; custom_button=&#8220;on&#8220; button_text_color=&#8220;#000000&#8243; button_border_color=&#8220;#000000&#8243; box_shadow_style=&#8220;preset6&#8243;][\/et_pb_button][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8220;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8220;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8220;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8220;initial&#8220; background_position=&#8220;top_left&#8220; background_repeat=&#8220;repeat&#8220;][et_pb_column type=&#8220;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8220;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8220;|||&#8220; custom_padding__hover=&#8220;|||&#8220;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8220;4.8.2&#8243; text_line_height=&#8220;1.5em&#8220; link_text_align=&#8220;justify&#8220; link_text_color=&#8220;#515151&#8243; text_orientation=&#8220;justified&#8220; hover_enabled=&#8220;0&#8243; sticky_enabled=&#8220;0&#8243;] The decline of old manners. The appearance of new manners. Times have changed. &nbsp; Once, acting without conscience was unthinkable. But what used to be unthinkable is now reality. &nbsp; Exhibitionism by performers \u2013 Voyeurism by the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<p><strong>To Be Authentic<\/strong><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Decline of old manners,<\/p><p>Appearance of new manners -<\/p><p>Time has changed.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Once, shame without conscience was unthinkable.<\/p><p>But what was used to be unthinkable is today what, reality?<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Exhibitionism by performers \u2013<\/p><p>Voyeurism by the audience.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Sense of shame and need for intimacy are only relicts of former times?<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>It seems, as if shame is a property we had to get rid of.<\/p><p>It seems, as if the ability of feeling shame became a new virtue.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>How is it called \u2013 this virtue? Uptightness? Prudery?<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>And no longer only prominent figures headline themselves,<\/p><p>Present the simplest pornography.<\/p><p>There is an intent on getting merchantable.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>More and more people today\u00a0<\/p><p>Do not avoid emotional or physical nakedness, and<\/p><p>Are not shy of any mortification.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>The world is flooded by NARCISM \u2013<\/p><p>Nothing else is more important than self-realization and cultivation of own needs.<\/p><p>The world is flooded by everybody`s everyday life \u2013<\/p><p>The need for informing others is inexhaustible.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>And there is this ADDICTION -<\/p><p>An addiction of nakedness<\/p><p>That belongs to our today`s life.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Everywhere, emotions and bodies are exhibited uninhibitedly,<\/p><p>Secrets are disclosed to everyone -<\/p><p>Frivolously and recklessly.<\/p><p>People invade the darkest end of the private life of others.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>What rules today is a culture of SHAMELESSNESS,<\/p><p>A culture of disrespect,<\/p><p>A culture of irreverence, and<\/p><p>A culture of invalidation of ideals.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Today it seems, as if you have to be shameless TO BE AUTHENTIC.<\/p>","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[51],"class_list":["post-2070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gedichte","tag-gedichte"],"acf":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9Ec4h-xo","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2070"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2070\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6336,"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2070\/revisions\/6336"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doreen-gehrke-verlag.de\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}